Why do men ‘suck it in’ when an attractive woman passes by? It doesn’t change anything! The guys who do this are usually so overweight that even with the ‘suck in,’ you can still tell they’re heavy. I’m not trying to be rude here, just stating the facts, ma’am! 😉
It’s true, a lot of women are more apt to check out (and maybe talk to) a guy without a beer belly, but it’s not always the case. Personality is really the key. I know some ultra-fit guys who can’t carry a conversation in a paper bag (whatever that means), and also some chunky dudes who are the nicest, sweetest guys ever. For me, at least, physical appearance is secondary.
Now, I’m not going to say I never take a guy’s body into consideration. At least some physical aspect is always the first thing anyone notices. You are being dishonest with yourself if you think differently. You can’t “see” someone’s personality, or soul, or whatever “at first sight,” so it comes down to the physical. But I’ve already written about all that. 🙂
There’s no need to belabor the point here (always loved that phrase), but suffice it to say (another fun one), guys, that the whole ‘suck it in’ thing is pointless, and most women know you are doing it, anyway. So… you might want to stop doing that.
by Angelina Estevante | Residential Life Magazine