Here’s the thing. I’ve been single for a little while now. It’s okay. I’m not going to go into some speech about it! The thing is, most guys think that “hot” girls who are single are bitchy or sluts, or something.
I’m not even trying to be vain here. I’m just saying “hot” because that’s what the guys say. I mean a girl that is nice and relatively attractive — someone that someone else would want to hang out with.
The point is that these guys never stop to think that maybe the girls are actually really shy, or have certain morals they’re looking for in a guy. They might even just be really busy, and don’t have time for a relationship right now. That’s a real thing, you know?!
People need to stop passing judgment on single girls. I realize that a lot of girls go from one relationship to the next and are never really ‘single,’ but that’s not the way that all girls like to do things. And just because someone doesn’t do that, it doesn’t mean there is something wrong with her.
I’m just tired of people jumping to conclusions, especially about things of which they have no idea!
by Amber O’Neal
Residential Life Magazine