I’m so done with hearing girls keep talking about how they’re “natural” or “normal” or whatever. There is no normal! Everyone has to be comfortable with who they are, and as long as you aren’t hurting anyone (or yourself), I don’t even see what the big problem is!
Nowadays, you see all these posts and stuff about how girls are “normal” ‘cause they’re fat, or skinny, or tall, or anything! I’m so tired of this “real” stuff. I don’t like to be negative, but this week I just had to vent it out, you know?
The thing is, people should just focus on being happy and healthy, and not try to get all wrapped up in labels or whatever.
I also want to say that by calling something “real” — especially something that’s not healthy — you are just giving an excuse to do it! I am not perfect and there are some things I’d like to work on with myself and my body, but I am not stressing out about it, and I am not going to make some excuse about how it’s “real” or whatever.
I don’t want to keep sounding mean, so this is prolly it for this week. I just think it’s time that people pay attention to themselves, stop making excuses, and start taking some personal responsibility for their own actions! How’s that for sounding like an old lady?! lol
by Chelsea Abrahams
Residential Life Magazine